Thursday, 21 January 2016

If A Guy Does These 11 Things, He’s Head- Over-Heels For You

At this point in life, between your own
dating experiences and those of fictitious
characters, you’ve probably learned that
there are guys who just shouldn’t be in
relationships. You know them — the ones
that don’t care enough to clean the leftover
pizza off the floor when you come over.
But then there are those who are actually
worthy of your time, affection, and —
potentially — your love. These are the
grown-a*s men that every straight woman
strives to find.
But, what are the signs you’re dating a
grown-a*s man and not just another boy?
Luckily, the answers aren’t as illusive as the
men they describe. There are a few must-
have qualities that every grown-a*s man
posses, and it’s worth keeping an eye out
for them early on in a relationship. As
opposed to dating a man-child, dating a
grown-a*s man makes you feel valued,
important, and pretty damn special.
Unfortunately, many women settle for less
because they don’t think that grown-a*s
men exist, and though they may be few and
far between sometimes, they’re certainly out
there. Take it from someone who has been
happily married to my own grown-a*s man
for over two years now. Real men definitely
exist. And they would be lucky to date
someone like you.
If you’re trying to figure out whether that
applies to the guy you’re with, here are
some surefire signs that you’re dating a
grown-a*s man.
1. He’s Defined The Relationship
You don’t have to have a drawn-out
conversation, because you already know
where you stand. When you’re dating a man,
he will make his intentions clear, right from
the get-go. If you’re his girlfriend, you’ll
know it. No more guessing games.
2. He’s Self-Motivated
A grown man has his sh*t together and
knows how to get it done. He has real life
goals and is making progress towards them.
3. He’s Not Jealous
He is secure in your relationship and doesn’t
feel threatened by other friends you may
have or your past relationships.
4. He Says What He Means
Relationships can be confusing. A real man
knows this and won’t beat around the bush.
When you’re having a conversation, he says
what he means without any manipulation or
disguising.
5. He’s Drama Free
Drama shouldn’t even be a word in his
vocabulary. Boys make drama. You don’t
need that in your life.
6. He’ll Talk About Anything
A real man makes you feel comfortable
enough to talk about anything. There
shouldn’t be anything you feel you need to
hide from him, and vise versa.
7. He Treats You Well (And Enjoys Doing
So)
Date nights should be enjoyable for him too,
not just out of an obligation to satisfy you.
A grown-a*s man will be proud to be with
you.
8. He Keeps His Place Clean
No more empty beer cans and remnants of
last night’s party. A real man knows how to
take care of his living space and takes pride
in its appearance. He may have a stack of
dirty dishes in the sink every so often, but
who doesn’t.
9. He Doesn’t Need To Be Babysat
You shouldn’t feel the need to check in with
him or remind him to take care of himself.
He will earn your trust and prove that you
can respect him through his actions, not
just his words.
10. He Owns His Mistakes
No matter the age, men mess up. The
difference is a grown-a*s man apologizes
when he’s messed up and actually change
his behavior after the fact.
11. He Knows Your Value
He would never treat you less-than or like
you don’t mean the world to him.
This article was originally published at
Romper.

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